a good seating location.
Corners and the outside perimeter facing the room's entrance way are prime. Furthest place away from the entrance.
Good, though not necessarily the best, view of the TV or the 'center of attention' for the evening. It sucks having to get up later and try to find a better viewing spot.
Often times I select the most difficult place to get out of.
Low traffic areas are a big plus.
The type of the furniture also plays a role. Arm rest(s) are a nice plus but a back is pretty much mandatory.
The reasons:
The corners are good 'cause I get to 'hide' away from the spotlight and not be the center of attention. That's probably pretty obvious.
I like the outside perimeter 'cause I don't like having people behind me. It's not a phobia or anything, but rather I just don't like having to whip my head around trying to follow everybody's conversations.
I also don't like not knowing what's going on behind me. Who does?
I look for low traffic places. Once I sit, I can sit for quite a while. I'd rather not have to keep getting up and scooting over and letting people pass, etc, everytime somebody else wants to move and get a glass of pop or whatever. This is why when sitting at a booth in a restaurant for example, I'd prefer to be the first one in. I'm pretty sure I won't have to go to the bathroom before dinner is over. And though it does suck having to wait for everybody else to leave before me, the pros outweigh the cons.
Sometimes compromises have to be made. Take the case at New Life. The 'annoyance' of being told to move up closer to the front my first couple of visits caused me to pick a seat in the middle. And although the middle is actually the front in most services, at least when we're asked to move up closer to the front, I'm close enough to not have to move, whereas everybody else would have to get up and move in front of me.
I also don't like sitting between people. Maybe that one's a phobia of some sort... dunno. I liken it to urinal etiquette, something I'm sure you all know intuitively.
Generally, the seat I select on my first visit to a new room, assuming it was found to be acceptable, tends to be my spot from that day on... even if it wasn't the 'ideal' spot in the event that the 'ideal' spot was already taken by somebody else.
Ok... now... I don't really go through this checklist or anything... it's just a 'feel' that I'm looking for.
What weird things are you looking for in... ?