It's a 2 year old article, but found it posted somewhere recently:
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/12/fashi ... d=all&_r=0I'm not a parent so take this with a grain of salt, but my opinion is that some parents are as confused as their kids. The fact is, kids are a more or less a blank slate. They'll soak up every little bit of stimulii put in front if them, and in this age of mass media, that's a lot. Adults have a hard time sorting through this bombardment already, and we're mentally filtering out most of it. Imagine what a kid who hasn't built that mental filter is going through. That's where I think parents should be their kid's filter, instead of letting their kids figure it out on their own.
Is it okay for a boy to like pink dresses? Yes, sure it is.
I personally think it's also okay for a parent to say to their boy that boys should like boy things. Not necessarily saying that it's bad to like pink dresses, but that there is a difference between boy and girl things. It just seems so many people are scared to say that these days for fear of offending someone.